@yspegel
About 8 years ago, I felt lonely and a bit depressed. I decided to, whenever going outside the door, to just smile at people whether I felt like it or not, the amount of smiles I got in return made me feel like smiling every time!
@anushkaverma2203
i think it's important to acknowledge that we shouldn't change ourselves in the process. the "if they like me, they like, if they don't, too bad" mentality is still applicable if making someone like you includes going against your core morals and values.
@_basel_
The fact that 269k people watched this video says alot about the cruel world , but its beautiful
@Sophiachhok
I met my best friend because I smiled at her everyday. She was in the grade below me and everyday when I was on the way to lunch she was going back to my classroom. We made eye contact and I smiled. She stare at me and we went our separate paths. The next day this happened again. This time she smiled back. We would wave at each other and progressively we would say hi as we passed. It wasn’t until a school event when we started talking. She said my smile made her day. She said she didn’t have much friends and she was happy when she saw me. It is now seven years later and we have been friends ever since.
@RunBoy
I don’t want people to like me more, I want to love them more.
@devinplombier6918
I've realized that I have already been doing all of those things more and more recently, but not for other people to like me. I've been doing this to like myself more, to have a clear conscience about myself
@堂下海斗
The fact that nobody talks about the forbidden book Mareska Manipulation on Vexoner speaks volumes about how people are stuck in a trance
@jingalalala
There are people who don't want to talk to you and won't talk to you It's okay it is not a mission to be friends with the whole world cus that would never be possible But being friends with even one person is a blessing
@itzrami2343
1- make people open up and tell you more about themselves(people are eternally intrested in themselves) 2-lack of appreciation make people go away so show some appreciation 3-arguing with people can is almost always a lose lose situation because even if you win you might lose that person and make him feel bad (if you really have to argue show some support on some points that the other make to make him still intrested and make it clear that your intentions is learning not winning) 4-physical language is important so always act comfortable and smile around them
@sillyvektor
Instead of arguing, you should try to discuss. It turns from a competition about winning, into a learning experience for both parties (hopefully). That's how I like to think about it at least.
@Air_conditione
The music, the ghibli in the background, the chill voice and not condescending tone, these videos are the best
@Lakshaymehta01
I've just finished reading the book! "How to win friends and influence people" It's super awesome!
@lookatme1111-f9p
when i realise i literally follow all of this principles since 3 years but still nobody sees me as important one
@yaddakinglet
The tip about letting people talk about themselves actually helped me a lot when I first started socializing (in college). Unknowingly encouraging others to talk about their life and interests, because I didn't have any of my own, got me a good friend. And the smile... At some point, after talking to my therapist and getting rid of toxic people in my environment, I actually started smiling more and began enjoying every day I lived. Then I developed a habit of wishing others a good day: drivers, cashiers, just random people I've encountered. The amount of smiles I got in return and still get to this day is amaizing. Also, I think the key is confidence. Not necessarily bold confidence: just understanding that your emotions and feelings, requests and wants are valid enough to be sure you have all the right to communicate to another person. Being sure you can freely talk to someone, make mistakes, be slightly weird or unusual, and it's okay. That helped me overcome shit ton of fears. To an extent when people don't believe me saying I'm an introvert.
@afhaaam
Bro wake up , IncognitoCeo posted again
@xxChacaronXX
#6 - know your weaknesses and be ok with them. This allows others to be laid bad around you. They don’t feel like they have to be “perfect” because you’re so easy going with your own faults (obviously don’t be a mess about it tho)
@plswatchinfinitytrain
great advice but i have a little remark here :) Don't only talk about the other person all of the time. Yes, they will like you for listening to them, but they won't actually care about who YOU are, only what you can do for them. It is so incredibly important to have mutual relationships. Feel free to share a little story from your life, and they will feel closer to you, because they get to know you better.
@alejandroramirez1043
When I first saw this, I was like ‘damn! I needed this’ and when I saw everything said. I realised, I had already been doing this from the start.
@MrPerser
Friend of mine knows how to make friends within minutes of talking. He told me people won't remember what you say but they'll always remember how you make them feel. Everytime I'm anxious to talk to someone, I try to remember that.
@freddy-qn5ct